HUBUNGAN KECERDASAN EMOSIONAL DENGAN PENYESUAIAN PERNIKAHAN PADA WANITA BALI YANG MENJALANI PERNIKAHAN NGEROB DI DENPASAR
Abstract: Marriage is one of
young adulthood’s development tasks. Some problems often arise in the initial
period of marriage and disturb the marital adjustment process. In some
countries with strong collective culture, a big family involvement is crucial
and give an impact to marital adjustment process. In Bali, there is a culture
called ngerob. Ngerob is a situation where one of the boys of a family should
stay at parents home to continue the obligations and responsibilities of
parents in customs, which means that a married man should invite his wife to
live in a home with his parents. Adjustment with the partner's family is
important in ngerob marriage. In order to reach a success marital adjustment,
the wife is expected to have stable emotions. Emotionally intelligent wife is
considered to have good self-control, able to express emotions appropriately,
so that they can adapt with the circumstances it faces. The aim of this
research is to determine the relation between emotional intelligence and
marital adjustment among Balinese women who are ngerob in Denpasar.
Subjects were Balinese woman who are married, living with in-laws
(ngerob) and live in Denpasar (n=60). Data were collected through emotional
intelligence questionnaire with and the marital adjustment questionnaire with.
The data were analyzed using product moment correlation test. The correlation
coefficient between emotional intelligence and marital adjustment are 0.503
with a significance level of 0.000 (p <0.05). The results of this research
showed that there is a positive and significant correlation between emotional
intelligence and marital adjustment among Balinese women who are ngerob in
Denpasar. The higher level of emotional intelligence encourage a better marital
adjustment process among Balinese women
who are ngerob in Denpasar.
Penulis: Ni Putu Widya Dharma
Astasari, Made Diah Lestari
Kode Jurnal: jppsikologisosialdd160041
